Gifts that build hearts: The Sunnah of strengthening bonds

with Hatmah Naluggwa Ssekaya

Assalam alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

Giving gifts is not just a cultural gesture. It is a beautiful Sunnah that softens hearts, heals relationships, and strengthens the unity of the Ummah. The Prophet Muhammad S.A.W said:
“Give gifts to one another, and you will love one another.” (Al-Adab Al-Mufrad)

In Islam, a gift does not need to be expensive. Even something as simple as a book, a date fruit, a kind note, a prayer mat — can carry immense barakah if given sincerely.

Adab of giving gifts:

• Give with sincerity, seeking Allah’s pleasure and building love among Muslims.
• Choose something beneficial — something that brings joy or helps a person.
• Do not embarrass the receiver — gift privately if possible.
• Avoid extravagance — gifts should not burden the giver.
• Accompany the gift with good words — a smile, a du’a, or kind expression.

Adab of receiving gifts:

• Accept gifts graciously, even if simple. The Prophet S.A.W never refused a gift.
• Make dua for the giver:
  “Allahumma baarik lahu fīh” — “O Allah, bless him/her in it.”
• Do not criticize the gift — gratitude protects the heart from arrogance.
• Reciprocate when able — not necessarily with something equal, but with kindness.

Gifts nurture love, remove bitterness, and remind us that Islam is a religion that values human connection. In a world filled with stress, a thoughtful gesture can revive hearts and restore relationships.

Practical tip for this week:

Give at least one small gift — a du’a card, a small dish of food, a book, or even a digital message of appreciation. Practice the Sunnah and witness how Allah places love between hearts.

Takeaway:
In Islam, a gift is not about its price — but the sincerity behind it.

Assalaam alaykhum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuhu.