PARENTING

Pass the baton, do not drop the legacy

 

Janat Yahaya Naggolola – Parenting Coach

Assalam alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

Your child’s future is not waiting at the school gate, it is being shaped now, within your home, through your presence, your words, and your example.

As parents, we are not merely caretakers. We are leaders, mentors, and custodians of a legacy that must be passed forward with intention and wisdom.

Do not allow life to simply “happen” to your children. Prepare them to navigate it with purpose, faith, and excellence.

The goal is not only to help them pass school exams, but to ensure they are ready for the ultimate test of life and that test begins far earlier than many of us assume.

Passing the baton involves more than academic preparation. It means sharing real-life experiences.

It means instilling time-tested values. It includes teaching unspoken truths, honourable family traditions, and the wisdom that does not come from books but from living with integrity and reflection.

Teach your children how to build a strong resume, but also how to stand firm before their Creator.

Show them how to grow a career, but also how to nurture character.

Let them learn from your victories and your missteps, including those “Ya Allah, what was I thinking?” moments that shaped your journey.

Make sure they understand that modesty is not outdated, that faith is not a weakness, and that success without sincerity is simply a well-packaged failure.

When the time comes to hand over the baton, let it be a clean, conscious, and confident transition. Because the aim is not to raise children who merely follow in your footsteps, but to raise future leaders who will walk further, illuminated by your example and guided by the light of Allah.

Raise them with a balance of taqwa, love, wisdom, and warmth. And even if they forget what you said, trust that they will never forget how you lived.

Allah reminds us in the Qur’an:

“And let those fear for their own children, who if they had left behind them weak offspring, would be afraid for them. So let them fear Allah and speak words of appropriate justice.”

(Qur’an 4:9)

So what legacy are you passing on to your child?

One of faith, values, and purpose, or just grades, gadgets, and good luck?

At  Mynd Your Child, we help parents equip their children with the tools they need to thrive, not only academically, but spiritually, morally, and emotionally.

We offer a holistic mentorship approach rooted in Islamic values, character development, and intentional parenting.

It is time to pass the baton with clarity and confidence.

Let us help you raise children who are not only successful in this life but prepared for the next.

Connect with us today and take the first step towards building a lasting, meaningful legacy.

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